Wednesday 4 April 2012
'He's Alive!' Easter activity
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Wednesday 12 January 2011
Friday 10 December 2010
Christmas at school
A box for a brownie |
A letter-scroll for a girl |
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Christmas projects 2010
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Saturday 18 September 2010
What do you think about it?
Self-preservation
By PeterSeptember 14, 2010
Other people, in contrast, reacted in a completely different manner. They weren’t heroic because they performed great deeds; they were heroic because they performed small deeds selflessly. They faced their difficulties with dignity. They helped one another. They banded together as a community, looking out for the welfare of their neighbors and sharing what they had with those in need.
Seeing the contrast between the two types of responses brought home the challenges we face when we are in uncertain times or difficult situations—as many of us are right now. In times of disorientation, when the status quo changes, when everything seems topsy-turvy, it’s natural for people to feel concerned for themselves. While everyone won’t respond in the same way, the selfish human instinct for self-preservation takes a more prominent role for some people.
When all around us is unstable, it’s natural to become destabilized ourselves. When what felt like solid ground begins to feel like shifting sand, the fear can be gripping.—Fear of the future, fear of the changes being, or about to be, thrust upon us. If we allow fear to overpower faith, our trust in God’s care tends to diminish. Once that happens, then the feeling that we must take control of events and take matters into our own hands becomes more prominent. This isn’t necessarily bad, since the “fight or flight” instinct is built into our nature, and we automatically respond to perceived danger with self-preserving moves. We will protect ourselves and our loved ones, as we should.
The challenge we face, though, is finding the right balance between our human nature and our spiritual nature. As Christians we are “new creatures” who possess more than just human nature.[1] We have God’s Spirit dwelling within us.[2] We abide in Jesus and He abides in us.[3] So, our responses to circumstances and events should be influenced by that indwelling. While we feel naturally driven toward self-preservation, the Spirit can temper that reaction, so that we can find the balanced response—one which is compatible with Christ’s nature.[4]
This isn’t easy, because our human nature is so … well, human. It’s our default setting. Being concerned for someone else or their need, situation, or struggle isn’t naturally our first priority. Because of this, there is the danger that we will minimize or even completely ignore someone else’s needs in favor of our own. When this happens, we are in danger of damaging others, and ourselves as well.
If we plow forward with our self-serving plans without consideration for those around us, chances are we’ll make decisions that will hurt others. Promises and commitments that we’ve made will take a back seat, and we’ll gravitate toward what is best for us even at the risk of hurting others. This can result in damaged friendships, disappointment, resentment, and bitterness. Those left in the wake of our selfishness will suffer, because our human nature overrode the Spirit of God within us.
When this happens, not only do others suffer, but we suffer too. Not necessarily in ways we see, at least not right away. But nevertheless, it damages us. I’ve read that in business, if someone is displeased with your product, they will generally tell 50 other people about it within their lifetime. In our lives as Christians, we are the product. If we have damaged someone’s trust in us, because our self-preserving acts have harmed them, they may never fully trust us again. And it’s possible, even likely, that they will convey that mistrust to others.
It hurts them, it hurts you.
Taking care of your needs and the needs of your loved ones isn’t wrong. But as disciples of Jesus, filled with the Spirit of Jesus, we should step back from focusing only on our own needs and look also to the needs of others. We should find the balance.
Philippians 2:4–5 says: “Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others. Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus.” (NIV)
Copyright © 2010 The Family International.
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Monday 12 April 2010
A moment with the older folks...
Adam thought of dropping by an old folks' home for Easter. Just us and kids, home-made peach jam, a song or two, Easter cards with kids writings inside, some balloons... It wasn't meant to be anything big. Simple, sincere and with lots of hugs and smiles. Well, that's all what was needed there, really.
We arranged the visit, the staff was informed and waiting. We came right on time, as the old ladies and gentlemen were about to start their afternoon snack. They had a slice of bread and milk. So, peach jam came in handy!
Kids sang a song. Poor Olenka was so shy she mixed up the words and just froze there with horror in her eyes, not knowing what to do next. I mimicked to her, "It's ok! Keep on singing! It's fine!' At the end of the song, she finally managed to smile again and get over stage fright.
As Adam was twisting balloons and kids were delivering them one by one to the older people, Hannah and I took time to listen to them, hug them, share a little bit of love. Each person - a whole life story. I felt so intimidated that it wasn't much, but I heard back, "No, please! It's all about emotions. I loved it, it moved me. I am so lonely here, and having a hug and someone to pay personal attention to me was so special'.
Here are some pictures:
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Sunday 31 January 2010
Puppets in the Hospital Folcan, Bs.As
You can hear all kind of stories in the hospital. This one is about a miracle. One young mother shared with me that her young girl Shamila (16 months) drowned two days ago. She stayed under water for 6 min, while the mother was busy doing something else. The pool was shallow, yet not shallow enough.... When they pulled her out, she was blue and stiff, didn't breathe and didn't show any signs of life, nor hope of survival. I look in disbelief at the healthy, active toddler trying to grab a donkey-puppet ear. Miraculously the little girl shows no signs of brain damage, or any other side effects of the accident. Well, it's a miracle to me. The mother totally agrees. I gave her a tract, explaining more about a Miracle-Worker.
Another interesting woman I found was a mother of eight healthy wonderful children. One of her little boys was brought to the hospital to stay for a couple of days as he had some intestinal blockage. The situation was promptly corrected, and both mother and son were sharing some special bonding time together. I found out, that this little two-year old was somewhat jealous that Mommy was spending all her time with a three-months old baby sister. Well, now he had Mommy all to himself for a while!
It was wonderful to offer everyone the prayer of spiritual and physical healing, and give out many coloring pages with simple Bible verses and nice drawings for the children to keep. Our clowns left each child with a balloon and lots of giggles! By the way, adults enjoyed the puppets as much as the children!
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